People thinking they have worse


hey all!!!! ok so this will probably be long and boring but pls read. so there was an argument between three girls in my friendship group (including me). it was about something dumb like homework but it did become a big deal. at the end of the argument the girl that was against me and my other friend apologised and told us y she has started the argument. she said that she was stressed about not being able to talked to her BFF while she (the BFF) was going through something (idk what). I understand that it would be hard but compared to what some people have gone through it’s nothing. 1) it’s not her (the person arguing against) that is going through this hard time. 2) this doesn’t give her a right to say bad stuff to us (me and my other friend in the argument) my friend and I have gone through some bad things as well. but we don’t take it out on other people. I really want to tell the person all of this through message or to her face but I don’t know how. I wanna scream it all at her but I don’t want to hurt her feelings. and I guess I will add another point while I’m typing this. so starting at a new school and stuff means I’ve had to tell people about my dad passing away. I’ve told my closest friend ( who was on my side with the arguing) so far and I’m prepared to tell the rest of my friends. except for the arguing girl (the one against). she seems like the person that would just laugh and tell me that it’s not a big deal. I’m afraid of her reaction. I know I shouldn’t be, but I am. im just don’t know what to do?!?!! if anyone has advice for both of my stories I would really appreciate it. thanks for reading!!